Do you long for a partner that makes you feel loved?

                                                 Miss being hugged?

Are you lonely?

Tired of eating or watching TV alone at night

Hi, I'm Sheila
I help women 50+ find love and create a great relationship with a man who makes them feel loved!

Like so many other women you may  hesitate to venture out....

What if you pick someone who tries to control you ?  
What if you end up being a caretaker?  

What if you end up fighting a lot?     

What if the man only wants sex and will not make a commitment to you?      

What if  you feel too heavy or just not attractive enough?      

What if you don't know where or how to find him?

These are just some of the challenges that I hear so much from lonely women who yearn to find love and have an equal partner to share fun and companionship.


Individual Sessions

 "Find Love" small 6 week Zoom group  (San Diego) Thursdays 4 PM                            

Call today for 30 minute Free Discovery Session

Call Today:   858 450 1965

I am a licensed California Marriage Therapist and a

certified EFT Relationship Coach!


Sometimes it is so difficult to find the right partner.  When we're young, we look for excitement, good looks, and fun.  We think we're in love because of all those raging hormones in our body.  Yet 50% of first marriages end in divorce.  Perhaps some of those marriages could have been saved and perhaps some of us stayed way too long in a relationship that was harmful to us. 

I have found in my 30+ years of counseling, that there are many women over 50 who are single, want to find love, and  have a relationship.  Not just any kind of a relationship, but a healthy enriching one, with a man who makes them feel loved.  You just don't know how or where to find it.  You may be successful in so many areas of their life and yet you are stymied in the relationship department.

After many years in an empty long term relationship I separated, thinking that I would be single for the rest of my life.  At age 82 I found myself looking at men again.  I did a lot of research consulted some experts and within 6 months I met and dated an extraordinary man.  (I did have dates with other high quality men, but this man stood out.)  He was healthy, extremely intelligent, has the same core values that I had and was 2 years older than me.  He moved into the retirement community where I live and we have had a wonderful loving relationship for 2 years.  He is my best friend.


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